soft lessons suck
My son, do not despise the LORD’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.
Proverbs 3:11-12
when God pays attention to you, don’t complain too much. he’s not doing it becuase you’re bad or because He hates you, rather just the opposite in most occations i’ve occured. He disciplines when you start to go down a path that might be bad. He shines on you with His radiant light because He loves you, not because he despises you. So if you end up going through a hard time and God comes down on you rather hard, don’t fret He’s only helping and making things better in the long run.
